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How to Read More Books That Matter

January 29, 2015

read more books that matter

I always want to read more books. If I go too long without exploring times past or hearing new-to-me ideas or happening upon intriguing fields of study I get kind of pent up and cranky. It’s like my brain decides it’s been caged up too long and revolts.

It took me a very long time to notice this. And really, I only figured it out after repeatedly watching the revolt make a big fat mess in the middle of my favorite relationships. (Sorry about that.)

But it’s not just reading more books that helps me be my better self. It’s reading more books of a certain type that makes the real difference. I love a quick movie-type read that has me page-turning through the early hours, but those usually don’t have the elements that let my wild-monkey-of-a-brain out for a run.

I bet you’re similar. It might not be histories and culture that let your brain play in just the right way, of course. For you it might be poetry, or engaging characters, or quantum physics, or spiritual memoirs, but I’m guessing there’s a difference in the soul-soothing for you between various types of books.

So how do we get more of these reads into our lives? 

One way that’s been working well for me lately is to make a list of topics I’m currently interested in reading about. I don’t mean a list of anything ever that in your wildest dreams you’d want to read about. I mean what’s on your mind right now.

Here are a few of the questions I use:

  • What book have I wanted to read but have been putting off?
  • What subject is on my mind a lot right now that might be better thought through with the input of an outsider?
  • What am I wrestling with right now that could use some encouragement?
  • What books have my friends been reading lately which have sparked my interest?

Assuming you’re reading regularly (and here’s a tip for jumping back on the reading bandwagon if you’re not), all you need to do is start referring to your list when you’re ready to begin a new book.

I’m a big fan of reading whatever a person feels like. It’s easier and more impactful that way. But choosing between books that we’ve already decided matter to us (rather than browsing that ever growing “to read” list) moves us toward books we feel like reading AND that matter in the broader scope of our lives.

I’ve been using my annual reading sub-goals as my list, and have had my best reading month in a long time. The books are timely and enjoyable but are also nurturing my mind and life in directions that are important to me.

What better books are on your list this year?

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Reading Goals 2015

January 8, 2015

It’s time again for annual reading goals. But first, true confession time. 

For the last three years running I’ve failed hard at my annual reading goals. Last year, in fact, I shared exact quotes where Brady makes total fun of me and insists I’ll never meet my reading goal. Nothing like someone who believes in you, right?

But he’s just calling it like it is. 2014 was a repeat of 2013, which was a repeat of 2012. And perhaps I’m setting myself up for another round next year.

Except that really, seriously, truly-madly-deeply… each year I’ve desired and intended to read 50 books. And it’s not the 50 books per say, it’s the routine of finishing one book a week that I’m after. And it just so happens that 50 books a year would mean that I’m finishing a book a week. And that’s the person I want to be becoming. So I’m going to keep aiming for it even if I fail for five or ten more years running. Because there’s something tragically lame about lowering my aims to accommodate my undesirable habits.

So I’m still aiming for 50.

Last year I began setting sub-goals, and I’m going to stick with that this year. When I remembered to review them, the sub-goals kept me moving, so I’m tweaking them and trying it again.

Here’s what I’m aiming for in 2015:

Total:  50 Books.
Monthly:  Three of my finished books should be from different topics/genres.

As my sub-goal, I’ll read at least 12 of the following 16 items/categories:

  • Game of Thrones #1
  • The Last Battle (the final Narnia book I’ve never read)
  • Re-read Harry Potter 6&7 (finishing up last year’s HP re-read goal)
  • Memoir (probably food-related)
  • Writing
  • Prayer
  • Beauty
  • C.S. Lewis or related (probably the McGrath biography)
  • Storytelling
  • Kingdom
  • Habits or neuroplasticity
  • Child Psychology or Education
  • HSP or Enneagram
  • History or Biography
  • Something I’ve been long meaning to read (like Walking on Water or Dune)
  • Something I’ve been meaning to re-read

Some books would count in more than one category, but no harm in that, right?

And I miiiight even push myself to round things out with Modern Mrs. Darcy’s Reading Challenge for the year, but my track record doesn’t make that too promising.

What do you want to read in 2015? Do you set goals or just wing it?

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What I’m Reading (the non-book edition)

August 18, 2014

I made a big reading goal this year. Fifty books. I’d finish fifty books by the end of 2014.

I was on track for the first months of the year, but then came back-to-back weeks of pushing-to-the-finish-line on several projects and I stopped reading altogether. Reading begets reading in my case, and even three weeks of not reading regularly will derail me firmly out of sync.

Now it’s several months later, and in firmly predictable fashion, I’m aching to return to regular reading. I just finished S-L-O-W-L-Y making my way through The Prisoner of Azkaban, but mostly I’ve been off-track with books.

Books aside, I have been intermittently popping in on my favorite websites, periodicals, and blogs. Here are a few of my current favorites.

Cup of Jo (Blog)

Somehow Joanna Goddard curates the best mix of interesting, intriguing, and useable information. She posts a LOT, but it works.

Modern Mrs. Darcy (Blog)

Anne Bogel talks books, life, and personality quirkiness, a still-light ensemble which evades triviality. Incidentally, she hosts the “What I’m Reading” link up of which this post is a part.

Vanity Fair (Monthly Periodical)

Full of fantastic stories and some of my favorite short-form non-fiction. Cosmo and Glamour it emphatically is not.

Relevant (Blog & Monthly Periodical)

Conversations on faith, culture, and intentional living. It doesn’t hide from the taboo and approaches topics openly and with generosity. Good thought fodder here.

Saveur (Monthly Periodical)

Planted firmly at the intersection of food and culture, Saveur serves up recipes and travel bits as well. Great reading for lovers of food, food writing, and the world.

What’s been your favorite short-form reading of late?

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What I’m Reading

April 16, 2014

Last month’s reading check-in reminded me that, while I have been reading rather regularly, I hadn’t yet made progress on my sub-goals. Oops. That’s why regular reviews are helpful, I guess.

This month I began remedying this, starting two books that qualify as “nagging books.” Now I just need to make a little progress. No matter. Onward! Here’s what I’ve been reading since last month’s check-in:

The Fault in Our Stars, John Green

I’m late to the party, I know. But I love love loved being swept away by the humanity in these characters. It was easily my favorite contemporary non-series read in a long time. I’d say more, but you should read it, and I don’t want to tell anymore than you’ve already heard.

The Great Divorce, C.S. Lewis

This is one of the few primary Lewis books I still hadn’t read. I enjoyed it, but because it took me a bit to get the hang of what was going on, I’ll be re-reading it. Recommended. (But don’t skip the preface.)

Immortal Poets, Christopher Burns

I’ve wanted to read more poetry for a while now, but where to begin? I decided to begin with this well-reviewed anthology and was happily surprised to discover the poets are arranged in historical order with helpful introductions throughout. Just what I was looking for.

Divine Conspiracy, Dallas Willard

Another one from my nagging list, it was undeniably time to pick this one up again (on the first read I had to stop to let the ideas soak about 90 pages in and never picked it back up). A modern classic, Willard critiques contemporary Christianity and aims to reorient it with an alternate paradigm. Yes. Yes. and YES.

What have you been reading? Share in the comments, or join the link-up!

 

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What I’m Reading

March 18, 2014

Every month, Anne Bogel hosts a “Twitterature” link-up. Thinking it a good way to track my annual reading goals, I planned to participate this year. But oops. Life happened. It’s March, and I’m just getting started.

But first, a quick check-in on the status of my 2014 Reading Goals. I’ve read eight books so far, putting me two books behind. Which is isn’t bad, honestly. I have not, however, even looked at the other sub-goals and therefore have done absolutely zero toward them. Double oooops.

But, onward. Here’s what I’ve been reading:

All My Road Before Me, C.S. Lewis

I love C.S. Lewis. I love his writing, too, but am most thankful for his life and the way he lived it. All My Road Before Me is a collection of diary entries from his early life, spanning 1922-1927 when he was 24-29 years old. Seeing his life in Britain 1920’s through his pre-Christian eyes will be fun for any fan of Lewis-the-man, but its 530+ pages would be slogging for anyone expecting the pointed clarity of later Lewis.

Gregor the Overlander, Suzanne Collins

(books 3, 4, & 5)

I’ve gushed enough about Collins and Gregor elsewhere, and am enjoying the final installments just as much. Highly Recommend.

 

A Million Little Ways, Emily P. Freeman

This book is full of encouragement to live generously who God made you to be starting right where you are. I needed it five years ago, and I’m guessing Freeman wrote the book SHE needed five years ago. It always encourages me to see God put nearly-identical things on the minds of people who’ve never met. In this case, I mean right down to particular words. Phrases like “show up” make a regular appearance in our household conversation.

Some of the semantic choices, however, went beyond my personal preferences (something most readers would likely disagree with me about). On the whole, recommend.

The Books of the Bible (NIV)

Reading this one for Lent. I’m currently in the Old Testament and can’t help but laugh at how teeny and kindly our view of God has become (on the whole). I mean, He does some really crazy stuff.

I’m thankful for this, actually. I serve God because he’s God, not because I understand Him. And He’s certain to have  some curious bits. But seriously, he does wipe out entire tribes from time to time. And nearly wipes out the planet. It’s good to be reminded of what is rather than just what we wish.

Get Big Fast and Do More Good, Ido Leffler and Lance Kalish

“Do more good” is another phrase that is a regular staple of conversation around here. So a business book  that claims to speak to just that? Perfect.

I haven’t gotten to the “do more good” part just yet, but it’s wildly entertaining so far. It’s basically their adventures in founding Yes to Carrots and the business world version of Catch Me If You Can. Thumbs up.

As for my goals…

The list this month reminds me I need to start reading what really matters to me. I’ve enjoyed what I’ve been reading, but I won’t be as satisfied at the end of the year if I haven’t read a bit more widely.

What have you been reading? Tell me in the comments, or write a post and join me for the link-up!

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Reading Goals: 2014 Edition

January 8, 2014

There’s been an unusual amount of banter around the house this year about our annual reading goals.

Last year I all-caps FAILED at my goal of reading 50 books, and when I said I was going to aim the same in 2014, the Dude spent the next seven days trying to wrap his mind around the idiocy.

He pointed out how I’d never even come close to 50 books in a year (true) and how during only two months of 2013 was I able to finish a book a week (also true) and, in a king-of-the-castle sort of way declared that meeting a goal must not matter at all to me, because clearly I’m not going to read 50 books this year (2014 promises to be a doozie) and that I should just make the goal 100 instead if there was no point in meeting it.

Uhhh… Okay.

But goals for me are really more like aims. Achieving them is neither motivating nor rewarding, so I’ve stopped bothering to pretend like it is. But I’ve found the process of considering where I want to go and deciding a direction I think might take me there to be worth it, so I set them.

Several friends of mine don’t make reading goals because they’ll read a bazillion books just by following their inclinations. And bravo to them for realizing the pointlessness of setting a goal for something you’d do anyway. But reading-focus eludes me, and as long as it does, I’ll be setting reading goals/aims. I’d like to meet them, but I won’t be sobbing out back if I don’t. Here they are for 2014.

2014’s Reading Aims/Goals

In total: 50 books. Fail by trying, right? Finishing a book each week keeps me reading and is much easier to keep track of from week to week.

Any way I get to 50 will count, be it Anna Kerinina or pdf ebooks, audiobooks or Kindle books, but I’m adding a few sub-aims to help me read a little more specifically. The sub-aims:

  • Re-read the Harry Potters.
  • Re-read three other non-fiction books (Re-reading is something I’d like to grow in)
  • Read 6 soul-nurturing books
  • Tackle 3 nagging books (books that have been on my list for way too long).
  • Do 2 short sprints where I read 3+ titles within a single theme (be it a topic, author, or other similiartiy)

Depending on the overlap-of-categories, if I complete the above I’ll still have room for 25 read-whatever-I-wants. Score.

Do you have a reading goal for 2014? Dish!

(And in case you’re looking for help getting started, How to Set and Keep Annual Reading Goals.)

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